'For me it's a lot like getting dinner,' wrote another bi man. It's also a lot easier to hook up with guys, according to another Reddit user. This makes sense since in order to bottom with a woman, you need to get pegged (or digital penetration and sex toys works too)! Pegging or anal/prostate play on a man by a woman is unfortunately still considered kinky or taboo, whereas when you’re a man having sex with another man, that isn’t a kink-that’s just what sex is. Many bi men are the “tops” (insertive partner) with women, whereas they are 'bottoms' (receptive partner) with men.